Janelle - Cambodian installment
Sunday, June 14th, 2009Have had a HUGE time in Siem Reap. I sit to write this and struggle to find the words for some of the experiences I have had this week. As I did in Africa, I feel very privilaged to have been invited into some of the Cambodian people’s lives and even more so for them to graciously allow me to take photographs of their lives. I am always very reticent about taking photos as I feel it is intrusive but this is just “the world according to Janelle”. I always ask permission but even then wonder what is going through the heads of the people who are being photographed. It does not happen to us in Australia. How often would you be asked by a tourist if they could take your photo? I know I probably miss out on bringing a lot of images back to Australia for AFO due to this stance.
My main reason for the photo rave in this blog is that I was taken out to visit some of the families assisted by a courageous Khmer/Aust NGO called New Hope. New Hope is situated right at an old army camp on the edge of town and seems to be a place that people like to pretend does not exist. I marvel at the energy and commitment of this project and hope that there will be more we may be able to do with them in the future.
I was taken to meet four families who are in most need of new houses or roofs (wet season is upon us) and one woman whose house had collapsed the night before I got there. She has eight children and is living under the most extreme circumstances. The money my friends and I have provided will build her a new wood/bamboo/thatched home for her and her children. New Hope (and a wonderful sponsor from the UK) will provide her with rice, baby formula (as she is unable to provide breast milk to her child) medical assistance, clothing and education for her children.
I was almost physically ill after visiting this woman and her children and wonder what is to become of them. I marvel at her strength under so much adversity and was proud to be able to assist New Hope to provide her with a new shelter. Kerry is an amazing Australian woman and I do not know how she continues to put in the level of commitment she does. New Hope is directed by a local Khmer man Kemsour and between them and their staff and volunteers, they assist people who have the hardest lives.
I assisted with a few of their children’s English classes whilst out there. These are a bunch of bright kids whose opportunity to quality education is slim. I fear that my view of how education is taken for granted by adults and children in the west will be forever tainted. Education in developing countries is a gift and most children will never have the opportunities that our children have. We sometimes struggle to get our kids to school where these children (and families) give up everything to keep their children at school. Here, education is a future. As one woman said to my friend Robyn who works at New Hope “An education is one thing that no-one can steal from her children”.
I have also spent a lot of time with Tania, Rem and the team at Green Gecko and Billy and Sey from This Life Cambodia and am so grateful for all of the support and friendship the Australians working in these NGO’s have shown me. They have welcomed me into their projects and introduced me to many amazing people and of course I want us to be able to assist them all to continue their fantastic work.
Tania and Rem and their workers provide a warm, stimulating, supported environment for children who previously spent their lives living on the streets. The changes in these children in tangible and they are a group of lively, clever, happy children thanks to Green Gecko.Thanks for the inspiration and sage words of advice Tania.
Billly is focussing on education and I have spent many hours having the most wonderful conversations about how This Life Cambodia is approaching helping children stay in school and the integration of their families in this process. I will go away so inspired by this project and hope to be able to visit the scholarship students out in the village again. Billy and his team are not only assisting these students but are helping other Cambodian NGO’s get a good start. Thanks for all the chats and inspiration Billy.
I have realised that to plan to do too much in one day is exhausting. As in Africa everything tends to take twice the amount of time and energy as at home and you learn to pace yourself. I love a cold shower over here (at least 2-3 per day if possible) and if I can fit an afternoon nanni nap in I take it.
It has not been all work though. I have had a couple of foot massages again and of course there is the amazing food, yep it is so easy to gain weight here. Last night we ate at the local street stalls the tastiest noodles that cost $1usd per plate, fantastic.
I have been on a quad bike trip (ok, ok pick yourself up off the floor, I know this is so not like me) out to the local villages and watched the quintessential sunset over the rice paddies which is so SE Asia. I was a tad nervous but after the first 500mtrs I got my bike legs in and was speeding along lanes with the best of them. Definately a must.
So, today I say goodbye to some new friends and leave to go back to Phnom Penh in the morning. I am heading back out to New Hope for Cambodian Children outside PP until Saturday and then fly to Bangkok for a couple of days where I hope to visit the tiger temple and hang out with some elephants before I fly back to Brisbane and reality on Tuesday.
I have to say I am not looking forward to it. I need to find a job so I can afford to do some more study (relating to working with NGO’s in developing countries) and travel again. AFO will be working hard to raise money for our new supported projects in Cambodia and our existing projects in East Africa. If you would like to help us with our massive fundraising task please email us or ring me. We would love all the help we can get and have some great ideas to make it fun and worthwhile. We will make sure the money gets to the projects.
I promise to get lots of photos on the website when I return (it is a bit hard here) and of course we look forward to seeing the images Ashley produces from his stay in Cambodia. Excellent work Ash.
Loveth Janelle (Gibson)